First, let me get out there that she is going to be fine in a couple days.

Saturday she started acting very strange.  She was being sluggish and was not really remembering the name of things or would forget what she was doing in the middle of doing it.  I thought the worst, I thought the mom I have known was going to be lost forever.

What a terrifying thing.  I was very upset last night.  And please don’t think for a second I was worried about what it would be like to take care of her, I was worried because I can’t imagine her being here but not being her.  Dementia, to me, is almost the worst thing that can happen to a person.  I am not sure how they feel, but I have seen people with it get very frustrated not being able to remember.  That would upset me the most.  She was having a hard time doing her normal things and that is why I was so upset.

Turns out she had a very bad UTI.  She is getting shots and oral antibiotics to cure the infection.  I instantly felt better when the doctor thought it was that.

There is a lesson I got to learn the “easy” way.  Most people don’t get the freebie their experience is permanent.  If you are a caretaker or if you are your family members closest link you MUST be engaged in their life in such a way that you don’t add so much to the stress of the medical situation with all the other things in life that are going on.

Do you have a power of attorney for them?  Do you know their wishes when it comes to final care.  It’s a lot of little things and trust me I know no one wants to do it, not them and not you – but someone has to know these things.

I love my parents more than anything or anyone else – even if I am not a huggy kissy kinda person!

I went with Carlos to get a pedicure today and it was very nice  We walked right in and were out of there in no time.  It started to pour while we were in there but was done when we got out of the grocery store.

I am about to wrap up my invoice for this month and I am very happy!

I made some good dinner, pigs in a blanket  I know, but I do love it

Nickel has been harassing me for a while, I took him out and it started raining and he does not seem to care one bit!

My phone was going dead very quickly and I got me a replacement, so happy to be back to normal.

I did all my laundry today and will be heading out again tomorrow.  I am almost done with this traveling portion and I think that is a good thing because I think things at home are getting a little bit hard.  We had to get the dryer fixed this week, that was kinda crappy, but it wasn’t too expensive to fix.

I have been needing to give up soda again, and I haven’t had a soda for a couple days now.  I am not sure if I can keep it up, but I will try!

Alright, I am going to grab some ice cream and go to bed

I am officially sick again  I felt a little bad before I left, but now it is in full swing!

I have been in bed all day so far.  It is 16:30 y’all.

I am sitting at my desk because I needed to look at my bank accounts and do some quick work and my desk is such a mess.  How can it be so bad when I am here so little lately

I slept most all of the day.  I am thinking that did good because I am a feeling a little better.  We had some pizza for dinner.  It was pretty good I guess.  Alright, I am going to bed now!

First, I must say how warm I feel with all the comments on yesterday’s blog!  I wasn’t sad writing it, just getting it out at that point, but still to know that many friends are engaged is amazing

Today we have an early flight but right now we are at Avon Yard.  This is a very loud office being near the retarders.  If you know what I mean you know how screeching it is.  I am gonna try to get a video to show it.

I am going to be getting home around 19:00 tonight and I can’t wait.  I have a busy working weekend, but all this work is gonna pay off very soon  I will have check boxes next to a task instead of the ongoing tasks you never check off.

Right when I decided I was going to grab a video to get that sound, the trains stop coming   Oh well, maybe next time.

I am now sitting at the gate in Indianapolis waiting on our flight to board.  Not too much time left, can’t wait to get home.  My phone is about dead, my replacement is waiting for me at home.  This stinks, I don’t know how people put up with phones dying during the day!

Next week we will be starting in Ohio I think.  Tomorrow I am going to take dad and go look at sheds!  I want to get figured out what one I want and get that next month.  I need BUSINESS space

Alright, I might add to this later, but the layover in Atlanta is short and I know when I get home I am going to have prime time puppy bonding time

I don’t feel normal, I feel broken…

Here is the thing, I am a very structured person when it comes to work. I know exactly what I am doing, I have the answers, I get things done, and above all I am confident in what I do.

So, how am I broken? Well, in my personal life, which I barely have really, I am so detached from my other self. I won’t say opposite, but I am in the passenger seat for sure.

It confuses me and upsets me when I get angry or hurt by something emotionally and my mind is telling myself that this is not something to be worried about. I think most people do things like put themselves down in their mind and are basically held back by their own thoughts, I am not. I know exactly when something is not working and I feel a very strong emotional attachment to it that I can’t seem to break.

Incredibly frustrating. So, that is the struggles of 2016 it seems, to be more reserved emotionally. This is not just about a boyfriend either, this is friendships too. I get very attached to friends and am just as hurt if they do something great and don’t include me as I would a boyfriend. It makes no sense, and I know it

Alright, moving on. Indiana, that is where I am today and after a shorter session this morning and a very long drive yesterday we are at the hotel early. I am sitting in my room, watching it rain outside and waiting for a call this afternoon that I am supposed to be on. I think that I really only booked 1 flight today, but I feel like that is all I do anymore is book flights, rental cars, and hotels. It not bad or hard or anything it is just something I have to give a lot of attention to because we have a crazy schedule through the beginning of October.

I rented a Jeep Grand Cherokee and it is so nice. I had thought about getting one of those and then I changed my mind to a truck, mainly because they are so dang expensive, but they sure are nice!

Well, here is a picture from today. It is incredibly hard for me to take a selfie with my phone being so huge so they usually look like this – half of my face and tilted

Yesterday I was supposed to fly out from Jacksonville to Indianapolis, but the weather in Atlanta was too bad and no flights were moving. I decided to just go back home and try to come out the next day. I talked to the ticket agent and got my new flight for today and that ended up going to Detroit instead. Because of the ticket status I got first class on both flights!! I haven’t had first class in so long I forgot what it was like LOVE IT

Today’s traveling was very uneventful, which is always nice. I flew into Detroit and had to drive a couple hours down to Findlay, Ohio. It was a nice drive, just a little bit of construction, but really didn’t add to much time. It always helps when I have a nice rental car and this trip I do. I rented a Jeep Grand Cherokee. It is pretty well equipped, but the main thing is that it has some power. Most of the rental cars don’t have enough power.

I forgot my meds at home so I had to deal with trying to get a partial refill and not pay a million dollars. The Walgreens lady really came through for me and got it approved to be a travel refill. Apparently that is a thing, good to know!

Findlay, Ohio. I have been here I think 3 times now. A place I had never heard of and now I know my way all around here 😉 Findlay is known as “Flag City USA”. What does that mean, well they had a guy who wanted every house to have an American flag so they had this whole campaign and now it is officially known as that. I would like to see what this town looks like on Flag Day.

I am going to start to publish these pages early in the day and then just add to them in the evening. I keep missing too many day

So I will be back later

Right now I am sitting in a restaurant in the Buffalo, NY airport.  I am headed to Atlanta to help support a cutover.  I was supposed to be heading home tonight, but I got asked to help so I help

I fly out again on Sunday afternoon, headed to Indianapolis.  I had to not check my bag which I haven’t done in forever so that was fun.  Really it wasn’t bad, I got priority security and actually got through way before my coworker who was TSA

I haven’t blogged this whole trip, I have been trying to get some other things done but I am catching up right now.  We went to a mall in Utica, NY which is where we were the first night.  It was HUGE!  We must have walked 4 miles in it.  I went to my favorite store and got some shirts because NY only has 4% sales tax if the item is below a specific price!!!!

The next night we were at Syracuse, NY.  They also have the same huge kind of mall, but we didn’t go to this one because I finally got to see Niagara Falls!!!  I was so very happy, and basically forgot all about it until we got there.  We also went on the Maid of the Mist.  That was very cool, but I did just about make myself sick from watching the swirling water.  It is pretty amazing.  I don’t have a waterproof case so I didn’t get too many pictures, but my coworker did and I will get them from her soon.

Today we are in Buffalo working.  We were in Frontier Yard today, not too bad for a yard  They are just a bit loud sometimes, but most yards have been around for a whole.

Well, here are the pictures so enjoy and I will try to blog tomorrow  Get back on track!